One of the most obvious traits of fake people is the inconsistency in their behavior. They tend to behave in one way around certain people, and then totally differently around others. Along the way, they they adjust their words, their tone, and even their personality to suit the situation.
For instance, a person may be warm and friendly around people of authority, while being cold and distant around others, or they may adopt the interests, opinions, and even the personality of those they try to impress. This can be quite confusing for people around them since it becomes difficult to know who they really are and what they really think. According to psychologists, this is usually a result of the need for social approval or a manipulation of a situation to suit their own ends.
Over time, a pattern starts to develop where the fake individual adjusts, exaggerates, or even makes up things for the sake of winning favor, attention, or influence. In such cases, their words often contradict their actions, and their promises or views may change based on who is listening. Friends, coworkers, or a romantic partner can easily notice that something is off.
These inconsistencies can easily cause damage and emotional distress for those attempting to keep a relationship with the fake individual. The truth is, of course, that everyone occasionally adjusts their behavior in a social setting. However, fake people make a habit of inconsistency, which leaves others wondering what their motives, intentions, and authenticity are in every interaction.
2. Constant Need for Validation
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