People who are fake tend to be very dependent on the validation of others in order to feel safe.
What this means is that many of these individuals tend to seek compliments, reassurance, or approval on a frequent basis and seem to enjoy being the center of attention in a social setting. This is not necessarily apparent or deliberate, but it can have a tendency to impact their interactions with others over time. Conversations may tend to revolve around their accomplishments, concerns, or needs, with less room for actual dialogue.
When so much energy is invested in being liked or admired, it can be really difficult to settle into a relationship in which being honest and showing your emotions is more important than being liked. Over time, things can begin to feel a little bit skin-deep, because the emphasis is on gaining approval instead on getting to know one another.
And although it’s true that each of us needs a little bit of encouragement from time to time, being too dependent on what others think of you and feeling constant need of approval can make it difficult to build a balanced relationship.
3. Master of Manipulation
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